it's about the fear of losing self

Maybe the reason that BPD is so attached with another human is because we need a somewhat sane-someone to be our conscience, our ground of what's right and wrong. Another body that replace our confusion of ourselves. So it's not about just losing someone we care about. Selfishly, it's about the fear of losing self.

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